I just wanted to tell you something: You are beautiful. You look fantastic today. Your style rocks.
I know it’s not easy to be satisfied with the way we look. Especially (but not exclusively) as women. Because people, society, they tell us what is right, what is “normal”, what is sexy and what is pretty. But they have no idea. It’s up to you. You wear what you like, you get the haircolor and haircut you want, you can get tattoos all over your body or none, piercings, make up. The way your body looks? Do what is healthy for you – physically and mentally.
If YOU don’t like the way you look? Change it! Dare to try something new. Hair will grow back, you can choose a new color whenever, you can change your clothes and put on make up if you want to, but also remove it if you don’t feel like it. (Think about tattoos though, they are meant to last, so if you’re not sure try out henna first.)
If YOU are not satisfied with your weight or your body? Work on it. Work out. Eat healthy. It’s not always easy, but every day you get after it is a good start. Take care of yourself. You only get this one body, so treat it with respect. But also, treat it with love.
The only important thing about the way you look is: DO IT FOR YOURSELF. Not for any girl or boy. Not for your parents. Nor for your boss. Not for society.
Accept yourself. Love yourself. You deserve it.
I love your look. And so should you.